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9:29 p.m. @ 21 May 2008

1024th Entry
As usual, I am so easily misunderstood.

Saying things from my heart and mind are always retaliated with others' way of thinking. And then it will appear that I am the one in the wrong to think how I think. Is it my fault to voice my thoughts out loud? Sigh.

Maybe I should just stop telling people what I think. Lesser problems for everyone.

Maybe.

Anyway, the weekend was pretty long for us as Dan didn't work on Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday.

I can't remember where we went to... LOL. But I remember buying lots of rabbits!

I mean, plushies. :D

One pink, one yellow and one red. I would want them to serve as cushions on the sofa in our new home. (But then... I don't even know if Dan is keen on getting a flat as he suddenly need to divert his finance somewhere else which is more important than getting a flat for us)

Bought M.O.H.'s gift which almost exceeded our budget.

And we also polished all the jewelry needed for the wedding. My dowry from Dan, our wedding bands, my engagement ring and a necklace. They sparkled brightly and were so stunning that they hurt our eyes.

On to another issue, I was watching Daniel's screen as he was typing to his friend who he will be inviting to our wedding.

I was 'amazed'... by what she could say...

"Tell you first.... I cannot give you a lot of money (referring to ang pao money)"

How can someone just tell the couple that he/she cannot give more money? What is the meaning?

You give according to what you can give, you don't tell us that you cannot give more. It's like so ... #@$@%$#%

And the person still say he/she prefers to buy a gift for us. What if the present I want is more than what she can give in an ang bao?

That person is just not street smart enough.

I do not think that it's polite or out of courtesy with you telling us that you cannot give a lot of money (as a gift) for our wedding. Gifts ought to be executed in discreet!!!

And I also got a few peeps who asked me if they should bring a birthday present along. I was like ... 'huh'.

If you would like to get me one, I would jolly well accept, if you are not able to then it's fine! I am not forcing people to get me an additional gift on top of the wedding one.

I only need special people to witness this special and joyous occasion with us. That's all. Getting a wedding or birthday gift is additional bonus.

I am so so so lazy to upload pictures and I have no mood too.

I hope that I am in a better mood the next time I blog.

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